Best Friend

OK so my best friend that is supposed to be in my wedding is mad at me and wont talk to me for some reason. i think i know why shes mad but i didnt do it, so this weekend she was supposed to meet this guy she met online in person she was texting him for weeks and they were supposed to finally meet in person so she wanted my fiance and i to go with, incase he wasnt who he said he was so we waited all day and he didnt show he texted my fiance hi. but wouldnt reply to her texts or anything and i think she is blaming it on my fiance and i. we didnt do anything we drove her around all day. took her to lunch, paid for her to go bowling and now shes not talking to me like wtf, and my bridal shower for his side is next saturday and shes "supposed to take me out" so my sister in law to be and mother in law to be can decorate and get the house ready. so now i dont even know if she is coming or if she is taking me out before the shower. im so confused and hurt and upset i didnt do anything wrong. i feel like everyone always makes me the bad guy. im too nice i always let people walk all over me and im done my mom does the same thing and im not doing it any more im sick of it. it's not helping me depression or anxeity and now i have no one to talk to about my family problems and whats going on in my life. this sucks i hate my life and people. so done 

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Comments (14)

  1. Aaron7984

    Don’t stress it! Look you are about to get married and people are jealous of what you have. She upset that he wasn’t responding to her but texting y’all which is weird in a sense but I guess he didn’t know how to break it to her. Don’t get mad before your big day or you won’t enjoy it. Your lose friend before you get married and afterwards but you will make more. If she was a real friend then she wouldn’t be doing this.

    March 12, 2015
    1. kailiwoods

      my wedding is in june and she is supposed to be a bridesmaid and already bought her dress so now because shes not talking to me i dont even know if she is going to be in the wedding i should have just asked people that i knew wouldnt drop out because we have had 5 people say they would stand up then drop out already it sucks i cant stand this. i have no one to talk to any more

      March 12, 2015
      1. Aaron7984

        Well you can chat with me on here. I’m a good listener and they are jealous like I said.

        March 12, 2015
        1. kailiwoods

          i dont get what shes jealous of. she did say before she wishes she had what my fiance and i had. but i have been with him since 2009 my sophomore/junior year of high school so hes my high school sweet heart he graduated in 09 and i graduated in ’11

          March 12, 2015
          1. Aaron7984

            Exactly, she want what you got and not happy with you because you have it before her. Most females hate their friend that are getting married and you see how she is acting is a sign that she’s not happy about you getting married. See y’all been in love for awhile and it’s taken y’all to the next phase in y’all love life: Marriage. She is still searching for the type of man you have so she is bitter to see someone happier than she is and want to rain on your parade because y’all are happy.

            March 12, 2015
            1. kailiwoods

              then why would she agree to be to be a bridesmaid i do not understand

              March 12, 2015
  2. Aaron7984

    Normally you would turn a person down when you are asked about a wedding but over time you start to resent ever saying yeah and eventually don’t want to be in it especially if your not happy with who you are with or don’t have anybody.

    March 12, 2015
    1. kailiwoods

      honestly do you think she is going to back out she already bought her dress

      March 12, 2015
      1. Aaron7984

        Can’t say but June is fast approaching. I just hope no one spoils this day for you. I want to get married one day and hope it’s beautiful. I went to a wedding last month and I enjoyed it. I was the camera man for it. If she was a best friend she would sit down and talk to you about what is going on and why she feel the way she do.

        March 12, 2015
        1. kailiwoods

          she is ignoring my texts my facebook messages and everything
          and i am supposed to go with her next Thursday to get her tattoo and next Saturday is my bridal shower for his family

          March 12, 2015
          1. Aaron7984

            Well I would let her get that tattoo by herself and find someone to replace her as a bridesmaid because she is being childish. She want to be alone over something petty and she would be alone for something petty. You need to be focused on you not someone who is making it about them.

            March 12, 2015
            1. kailiwoods

              i really think she is blaming us for him blowing her off. i asked her to stand up to replace someone else im not going to replace her. i dont care anymore it is what it is

              March 12, 2015
  3. Aaron7984

    Ok and I hope everything goes well

    March 12, 2015
    1. kailiwoods

      thank you.. lets just see if she shows up to my shower

      March 12, 2015